Category: Grief & Suffering

  • Searching For the Perfect Church

    I found a book by a young woman who is telling my story, Except mine began 50 years ago and is still ongoing. She was the model Christian child/teenager/young adult until events caused her to question the religion, she grew up in. It began with the events following September 11. Questions no one could answer.…

  • MAR – First Anniversary

    (I wrote this about a month ago. I wasn’t sure how to finish it at the time.) Mary Ann passed a year ago today. It has been a sad day, but not a depressing one, I miss her very much, but I know she is better off. She went peaceably and I don’t think she…

  • Uvalde!!!

    Just when I thought I had all the demons of the past year under control, a troubled high school kid drops another one on the pile. I haven’t been to Uvalde in many years and probably don’t know any of the shooting victims or their families. But I have long ties to that beautiful little…

  • Searching For the Perfect Church

    I found a book by a young woman who is telling my story, Except mine began 50 years ago and is still ongoing. She was the model Christian child/teenager/young adult until events caused her to question the religion, she grew up in. It began with the events following September 11. Questions no one could answer.…

  • Dealing With Suffering

    (Note:  This is a digest of two articles I recently read.) There is great mystery in the suffering of the innocent.  Perhaps, it is better just to accept it as a mystery rather than try to explain it.  One of our earliest recorded examples is Job of the Hebrew Scriptures.  Apparently, Job did not take…

  • On Christmas

    Christmas this year didn’t start well. It began the night before when melancholy, set in.  This would be my first Christmas without relatives or spouse in 52 years. I woke up on Christmas morning with no desire to move. My first thought was to lay in bed all day and let it pass.  But, I…